What do you do when one of your really close friends is just digging herself in a whole?  Her priority is boys and dating, instead of focusing on school and her friends.  Not to mention, she always ends up liking the players.  I'm getting so annoyed with her! Everytime we talk its about how she got asked out 4 times this week, or that she hung out with so and so, or that she made her ex boyfriend really jealous by looking so hot at a party that he was at.  I told her I'm sick of hearing about this guy named Seth.  He really is just playing her.  Last semester, he was having sex with some girl and hanging out with my friend.  My friend, we'll call her Stacey, just sets out to break her own heart, and I'm so sick of hearing about it.  She just thinks that all these guys like her, when they really don't.  I hate to say that, and that makes me sound like such a bitch.  But, I'm just so sick of hearing about her conversations and such with all these guys.  That is another thing too, even when she was with her ex, she was still talking to Seth.  Like texting him and stuff. I'm trying to just avoid her because I don't want to talk about guys and stuff with her anymore.  She likes so many guys, and I feel like I gotta steer clear of all those guys because of her.  It's ridiculous.  An incident happened last semester with a guy that she kind of had a "history" with.  They were never together, but they hung out and stuff and whatever.  He happened to be out in the lounge when I got back one night from a party (I don't party all the time, by the way) and we ended up talking for like almost 2 hours, and when my roomie got back with her boyfriend and our other friends, he followed us back to our room and watched a movie with us.  Well---he ended up spending the night cuz we fell asleep in my bed.  I didn't want to hide it from her because well, there was nothing to hide anyways.  She wasn't talking to him anymore, and when I told her she got pissed and told me to leave.  Things really haven't been the same with her every since.  I'm kinda at a loss of what to do about her.  Any suggestions???

Jaclyn

Yesterday was Valentine's Day.  Sadly enough, the guy I love--well we aren't together.  I asked him if he wanted to do anything yesterday, and he said that he'd rather spend it alone.  So, when I saw an old friend on facebook that I hadn't seen since graduation (I'm a freshman in college btw), I asked how he was and asked if he'd wanna get together sometime.  He asked what I was doing this weekend, and obviously, no plans.  He had to work on Friday night and had church today, so asked if I'd wanna hang out last night.  I mean, we're old friends--known each other since elementary school.  Our parents knew each other and such.  I was nervous that it was a date, but afterwards, I decided it wasn't.  We even talked about it.  It was more of us just catching up again.  Anyways, we went to dinner, and to see Friday the 13th.  SCARY MOVIE. damn!! I won't ruin it all for those of you who haven't seen it--but GEEZ! It was just the jumpy parts that get me, not the gore..I can definitely handle gore.  Anyways, we had a good time.  We'll probably hang out again sometime.

After I got home last night, my roommate's friends were still here (2 guys).  I honestly for real don't care that they were here--or care that they spent the night.  We happen to have an extra bed in our room and they just pulled the mattress down and put it on the floor (because the extra bed is on top of mine.)  I have NO PROBLEM with people coming and staying.  I am picky though about people sitting on my bed.  I mean, I sleep there, and do homework, and get on my laptop, and do EVERYTHING pretty much on my bed.  So its just my space.  Well, my roomie has a tendancy to come and talk to me and sit next to me on my bed.  Or like they are playing rockband, and she sits on my bed to play the guitar.  I'm just like..uhhh whoa, get the hell off!  I'm just weird though with that.  Like, I don't mind when I bring my friends over if they sit on my bed (some of them anyways, haha), but like..she has her own bed damnit! LOL.

Well, I'd better go and do some homework, maybe I'll add more later.  Hopefully get some new friends on here, and hear their perspectives on my life, lol